This is a pretty complementary combination. 1 is attracted to 2’s generosity, sympathy and attention. 1 is charmed by 2’s sociability, good humour, joy of living, strong sentimental side and big heart. 2 is attracted to 1’s integrity, honesty, awareness, rigor, reliability and self control. 2 feels 1’s internal need (that could be hidden) to have more pleasurable moments in their life, and can feel the want to help him. 1 is happy to have someone who can soften him and help develop his social life, while 2 appreciates the security and emotional stability that 1 can offer. Both types appreciate and admire the other’s desire to help and sense of responsibility. They share a common vision which is the wish to contribute towards doing something good in the world.
2 can feel neglected by 1 who can be too involved in his professional activity and thus not give enough to the relationship. 2 can sometimes see 1 as being too critical, emotionally closed on himself, inflexible, unable to relax and too easily annoyed. 1 can sometimes see 2 as being too intrusive, possessive, emotionally “needy” and manipulative.