Relationship between type 2 and type 3

The altruistic and the chameleon

Samwise Gamgee (Lord of the Rings)
Mary Crawley (Downton Abbey)


The 2 is impressed by the self-confidence, charisma, determination and ambition of the 3.
The 3 is attracted by the kindness, the generosity, the attention and the affection of the 2.
They are both optimistic, sociable, energetic, hardworking, and like to find it in each other.

Points where to be careful

These two types, although they are not always aware about it, are very attentive to their image and have a strong need for recognition to fuel their energy. The 2 needs to feel important and loved by his partner to continue to act in a positive way, while the 3 needs to feel the admiration of his accomplishments by the people around him. The 2 may feel frustrated that his attentions may not be enough for the 3 to feel good.