The 4 is attracted by the optimism, the sociability, the affection as well as the attention which gives him the 2. He also admires the capacity of the 2 to naturally act to make things progress. The 2 is attracted by the emotional depth, sensitivity, mystery, creativity and compassion of the 4. These two types are very romantic and can form a deeply sentimental and fusional relationship.
These two types are very emotional and sensitive, and may have difficulty expressing their needs in the relationship. The 2 can sometimes see the 4 as being too depressed, egocentric, passive and selfish. The 4 can sometimes see the 2 as being too intrusive, stuffy, manipulative and sticky. The 4 can be very disappointed if he interprets the flattery of the 2 as being a manipulation so as to feel loved and might find it superficial.