They are attracted to each other’s passion, original way of thinking, idealism, their search for authenticity and romanticism. They appreciate each other’s sensitivity, emotional depth, creativity and uniqueness. They are both dreamers and spend a lot of time together imagining their future and telling each other their dreams. They are both introspective, understand their deep, reciprocal feelings with empathy and know how to listen to each other and support each other.
The greatest challenge is the emotional instability that can worry both partners. And if it emerges at the same time for both, there isn’t one there to help the other, and the relationship can become very cold. 4s are attracted to what they do not have, and they understand and love each other when they are within their dreams, but can struggle to accept each other as they are when in the real world.