4 is attracted to 5’s awareness, intellectual curiosity, analytical skills and thoughts. 5 is attracted to 4’s emotional depth, creativity, open-mindedness and ability to hold deep conversations. Both are individualistic, like using their imagination and have a deep interest in the meaning of things. 4 can develop new interests by 5 sharing his thoughts on all the different topics that interest him, and 4 can help 5 explore his internal emotions.
4 can struggle with 5’s emotional detachment because he needs to feel deeply emotionally connected with his partner. Thus, 4 can feel that 5 is too detached, unavailable, indifferent and cold. 5 can find 4 to be too emotional, attention-seeking, depressed, dramatic and difficult to please.