These two types are very different on certain points but very complementary on others. 4 is attracted to 7’s energy, enthusiasm, self-confidence, optimism, curiosity, excitement and spirit of adventure. 7 is attracted to 4’s deep, idealistic, passionate, creative, non-conformist and romantic spirit. Around 7, 4 becomes a lot less moody as he is already too taken with all the fun activities and conversations that 7 takes him on. 7 brightens 4’s life, makes him come out of his shell and feel alive, and 4 adores this. 4 helps 7 explore his internal world and helps him be more deeply connected to his feelings and emotions. They are both idealists and aspire to contribute something good to the world.
4 can sometimes see 7 as being too offensive, superficial, opportunistic, impatient, impulsive, insensitive, intolerant towards negative emotions and indifferent to trying to solve complicated relationship issues. 7 tends to flee emotional connection as soon as it becomes intense, which can make 4 incredibly sad, as he is looking for exactly that. 4 can also wear himself out, in the attempt to follow 7’s very energetic pace of life. 7 can perceive 4 as being too emotional, moody, attention-seeking, negative, hypersensitive and have over exaggerated emotions.