6 is attracted to 9’s patience, calmness, tolerance, tenderness, listening skills, optimism and positivity. 9 is attracted to 6’s attention, cooperation, humour, consistency, affection, loyalty and support. 9 can help 6 to be more easy-going, relaxed and less anxious. Both can be rather indecisive and procrastinate and can mutually support each other. Both are looking for safety, stability and tranquility and are happy to find a partner who agrees with this way of life.
Both avoid conflict and look to preserve stability and safety. This means that neither of them will dare to ask the questions that are bothering them, leading to an accumulation. With time, this can cause distance between the two. 6 can sometimes perceive 9 as being too indecisive, distracted, indifferent and irresponsible. 6 can wrongly interpret 9’s silence and persistently search to understand what 9 is hiding. 9’s procrastination can make 6 very anxious. 9 can perceive 6 as being too wary, accusatory, provocative, excessively anxious and sceptical. 9 can blame 6 when things go wrong, saying that he was simply following him.