Relationship between type 7 and type 8

The epicurean and the leader

Phoebe Buffay (Friends)
Tommy Shelby (Peaky Blinders)


The 7 is attracted by the intensity, energy, passion, autonomy, honor and leadership of the 8.
The 8 is attracted by the optimism, the lightness, the joy of life and the playfulness of the 7.
Both are sensual, direct, full of energy, have a strong attachment to freedom and can be open to new experiences.
Both are independent, confident, and have unconventional minds that sometimes like to go beyond boundaries.

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Both can be too excessive in their lifestyle, egocentric, insulting, and stubborn.
The 8 needs a faithful partner whom he can trust. The 7 can have a lot of trouble to accept the authority of the 8.
The 7 can see the 8 as being too dominant, authoritarian, aggressive, impatient, insensitive and confrontational.
The 8 can see the 7 as being too careless of the relationship, unreliable, and too evasive of problems.